Welcome to Jobapalooza, where we are celebrating all things work. Why? Because I got a job!
I love when God brings a word to you right when you need it... do you know what I mean? Like if you have been struggling with forgiving someone and you walk into church and the sermon is on forgiveness, or if you just can't make a decision about something and He brings like five people who don't know each other but all say the same thing to you?? Anyhow, I have been reading (for like two months now) Dietrich Bonhoeffer's Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Faith in Community. And today wouldn't you know the part I was reading had to do with work. Ha. Why is this funny? Because God just provided a job for me, after four months of unemployment. I start next week. Apparently, He had some things He wanted to teach me before I got back to the workplace. SO of course I am going to share those things with you.
Ok so in the book, he has been going through the different elements of what should make up the morning family devotion, and after he talks about prayer he starts in on how after the devotion you go to work. He says "Prayer and working are two different things. Prayer should not be hinder by work, but neither should work be hindered by prayer." It sounds almost sacrilegious doesn't it? Surely prayer is more important than work, thats what most of us are taught to believe. But is it? He goes on to point out that God has commanded that man work for six days and rest on the seventh, that God expects and wants man to work. How often do you think about your work as something God wants you to do (SAHM's I am counting your staying at home a job too)? I think we have slipped into a common thought of work being something we have to do to get money, and not work being something God wants us to do in order to sanctify us (me included in this).
Work plunges men into the world of things. The Christian steps out of the world of brotherly encounter into the world of impersonal things, the "it"; and this new encounter frees him for objectivity; for the "it"-world is only an instrument in the hand of God for the purification of Christians from all self-centeredness and self-seeking. The work of the world can be done only where a person forgets himself, where he loses himself in the cause, in reality, the task, the "it". In work the Christian learns to allow himself to be limited by the task, and thus for him the work becomes remedy against the indolence and sloth of the flesh. The passions of the flesh die in the world of things. But this can happen only where the Christian breaks through the "it" to the "Thou," which is God, who bids him work and makes that work a means of liberation from himself. pg. 70
He goes on to describe that seeing the "Thou" through our work becomes what Paul calls "pray without ceasing". That in being able to see God and work for him and not yourself or others, this is where prayer becomes an every moment thing.
"Thus the prayer of the Christian reaches beyond its set time and extends into the heart of his work. It includes the whole day, and in doing so, it does not hinder the work; it promotes it, affirms it, and lends it meaning and joy."
Have you seen your "work", whatever it may be, as a way to please the Father? Have you thought of it as a way for Him to refine you? Have you worked at your job as if working unto the Lord? I think when we see it this way, it will be easy to talk to the Lord all day about it, about what we are doing, what we are struggling with and asking for His strength and character instead of our own.
What a good lesson for me before I return to work! I will be an "Office Associate", which is a nice and new way to say secretary. It will be easy to think this job doesn't matter spiritually, but that just isn't true. This is an opportunity for the Lord to refine me, and in the process to "bring many sons to glory".
How about you, have you ever thought about this? How do you view your job? What struggles do you have with meshing your relationship with God and the place you spend majority of your day at?
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Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Jobapalooza: Work and Our Spiritual Lives: How do they mesh?
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Jobapalooza: The Stats
Jobapalooza!
- A post each day about work, looking for work, being unemployed etc.
- Things I will miss about being unemployed
- Things I won't miss about being unemployed
- A look at working and our spiritual lives, how do they mesh together?
- A Q&A with yours truly (but only if you guys participate and make it happen!)
Monday, September 28, 2009
Why I Love This Week
Heather, who writes at Live.Love.Laugh., does a post each week entitled "Why I love This week". It is a neat concept, starting your week off with looking at the good things that are coming instead of dreading another week. So I wanted to join in this week...
- Fall weather has finally showed up and I love it! It is crisp outside and I have turned off the air conditioner and opened windows! Yay!
- I finally have a week where I do not have to worry about finding and applying for jobs! Instead I get to spend the week enjoying myself and doing projects I want finished before I head back to the workforce.
- Mr.Pate is no longer sick (he had strep throat AND the flu last week!), so we get to actually touch and sleep in the same bed and enjoy each other!
- I get to enjoy my youth group! I have missed the last two wednesdays, so I am pumped to get to hangout with them again!
- Did I mention I have the peace of knowing I have a job??!!
Menu Plan Monday 9/28-10/4
This week is our last week of "normal", or what we now know of normal. Next week I begin my new job (Yay!) and Mr.Pate will be working alot of nights at Starbucks (yuck! what perfect timing right?). So who knows what we will be eating! HA!
My meals for the first half of this week are all things we had on hand, and the second part of the week recipes are things I have majority of the ingredients for. I am mentioning this because this is a key way that I meal plan- "planning for what I have". This can save you money and not waste ingredients that go bad in your pantry or fridge. Try it this week- look at what you have and think about what meals you typically use that for. Hope it helps you save some molah! On to the plan:
Monday: Skillet Lasagna and Green Beans
Tuesday: Grilled Steaks, Mashed Potatoes, and Broccoli
Wednesday: Dinner at Dustin's
Thursday: Taco Bar
Friday: Game Night at church (It's Potluck). I am taking KY Crescent Roll Casserole
Saturday: Eat out
Sunday: Church Picnic! I'm taking Deviled Eggs
Skillet Lasagna
3 garlic cloves, minced (i leave this out)
1 lb ground turkey breast
salt and pepper
8 lasagna noodles, each broken into 4 pieces
1 (26 oz) jar tomato sauce
1 1/2 cups shredded mozzarella
3/4 cup ricotta
- Warm oil in a 12” skillet over medium high heat. Add garlic and cook until fragrant.
- Add turkey, salt and pepper and cook until no pink left.
- Scatter lasagna noodles over turkey. Pour tomato sauce and 2 cups water on top of noodles, bring to a simmer.
- Then reduce heat to low, cover and cook at a low boil until noodles are tender, about 20-22 minutes stirring occasionally.
- Sprinkle 1 cup mozzarella onto the mixture and stir to combine.
- Remove pan from heat and spoon heaping tablespoonfuls of ricotta on top of lasagna. Sprinkle remaining mozzarella, cover and let stand for 4 to 5 minutes.
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Julie & Julia... my take on it
Well I have finished Julie & Julia: My Year of Cooking Dangerously by Julie Powell. And now I feel like sharing my opinion on the book with you, whether you care or not. Ha. Just kidding. Well not really, I am going to share. But you can choose to stop reading. I won't judge you. Maybe.
- I love reading about or watching people cook, so hearing her adventures in cooking French food was fun.
- She is very real in the book, showing all her sides whether good or bad, and I found that refreshing.
- Learning even more about Julia Child, I swear guys she is addicting in some strange way.
- Her husband, he comes across as such a loving and sweet guy.
- She is as negative as they come. I actually think she tried really hard to come across as overly negative.
- I feel like she tried way to hard to be a funny or witty author. She wrote like this alot, where it felt forced (the humor that is). Now I love when Will Ferrell does these type of humor in movies, but it just didnt feel real to me in the book. So it annoyed me each time bc I felt like she was being fake and, as afore mentioned, overall I felt she was super real in the book. Exhibit A:
(If it had been Eric with me, the day would have ended with us rebuilding a diesel engine with a giant timer ticking over our heads, in front of a live studio audience, while Hi mechanics nduwho disapproved of my mode of dress jeered at us and pelted us with stones. Or something.) pg. 51
- The fact that Julia Child apparently didn't like Julie or the project & that Julie never ended up meeting her. By the time Julia said this though she was like 92 or something, and we all know how most 92 year olds get kinda grumpy.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
thoughts on getting a job #5
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
I would like to approach the bench please!
- lots of people have a bias when it comes to a child support case
- it annoys me to no end when crowds start murmuring when I feel like they should not be (for example when someone has 'approached the bench' to talk to the judge)
- some people will judge anyone, no matter if there is some kind of cause or not
- women are such talkers
- people in general are dumber than I gave them credit for
- you must be asked the same question three different ways before you answer honestly, apparently (how hard is it to say yes to the question 'do you know the lawyer?' if in fact you are involved in a lawsuit that involves said lawyer? why do you need to wait to say yes when two questions later you are asked if you are involved in any lawsuit and you indeed say yes and it happens to involve that lawyer... ugh)
- sitting in a courtroom is a great place to catch up on some reading
- judges have the best jobs ever- this is the first case all month... what have they been doing?
One Letter at a Time
A - Age: 26 (soon to be 27 in Nov)
B - Bed Size: Queen and staying that way, I feel all alone in a King!
C - Chore you hate: Laundry... it just keeps coming!
D - Dog's Name: Joey
E - Essential start your day item: My Bible and Coffee
F - Favorite Color: I have a hard time choosing... earthy tones or black or blues or greens
G - Gold or Silver or Platinum: white gold or silver
H - Height: 4' 9½"
I - Instruments you play: Not a one
J - Job Title: UnEmployed
K - Kid(s): Hopefully someday
L - Living Arrangements: mr.pate, me, joey & zoey live in a 2 bed/1 tiny bath 60 yo home in bowling green, ky and love it!
M - Mom's Name: Janet Denise but we call her denise
N - Nickname(s): Bre, Brina, SOG (in high school)
O - Overnight hospital stay other than birth: they stole my thyroid two years ago
P - Pet Peeve: when people think they know it all, when people interrupt you, when people rub their feet on the carpet
Q - Quote from a movie: "The concept is grasped... The execution is alittle elusive." (Princess Diaries 2) "You sit on a throne of lies... you smell like beef and cheese.." (Elf) The Starbucks quote from You've got Mail... too many to name basically
R - Right or Left Handed: Right
S - Siblings: Misty Ann Donoho, my fabo older sis
T - Time you wake up: 7 am to an 80 lb dog sitting on me wanting breakfast
U - Underwear: yes i wear them?
V - Vegetable you dislike: onions!!!
W - Ways you run late: trying to fit too many things into my small time frame, or if i got started watching a show i have a hard time leaving, or if i am leaving people i am always late bc i dont like to say goodbye
X - X-rays you've had: throat, wisdom teeth, not sure of any others??
Y - Yummy food you make: peanut butter pie!
Z - Zoo Favorite: monkeys, elephants, hippos
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
a few book reviews
Monday, September 21, 2009
The F-I-R List
The Duggars: 20 and Counting! by Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar: This is a book the Duggars wrote to share their family philosophies and everyday habits etc. I dont have cable, so I dont watch the show but I am intrigued.
On Becoming Babywise by Gary Ezzo: This is a book about one method for training your child to sleep etc. I am not pregnant but want to be prepared for one day.
Teach them Diligently by Lou Priolo: Saw this book on Lindsey at Passionate Homemaking's booklist and wanted to read it for myself. I think it will be helpful for when I have kids but also now with my sunday school class etc.
The Journals of Jim Elliot by Elisabeth Elliot: We have this sitting on our book shelf and I have never read it. But I have read several of her books where she shares about him and I think it will be challenging and enjoyable.
Instructing a Child's Heart by Tedd and Margy Tripp: mr.pate and I took a class based on one of Tripp's other books and loved it. So if the library can get it on interlibrary loan then this one is in.
Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis: The Christian classic about what our faith is all about. I have attempted this book a few times and gave up because he is hard to read. This time I am older and more determined I think.
Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer: currently reading this book and totally loving it! it is a hard read, but so worth it. anyone who really wants to improve in how they love the people around them, i would suggest this book!
The Giver by Lois Lowry: My childhood favorite, I figured it was a good time to revisit it!
Time to get busy! Head over to Callapidder Days to see what everyone else is reading! If you have a blog, join in. And if you dont have a blog, post your lists in the comments section on this post!! Let me see what you are reading friends....
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Menu Plan Monday 9/21-9/27
One Dish Chicken Bake
1 pkg Stovetop whole wheat stuffing mix
4 chicken breasts
1 can cream of mushroom soup, 98% fat free
1/3 cup sour cream (I use fat free)
1. Preheat oven to 375ยบ.
2. Stir stuffing crumbs and 1 ½ C hot water, just until moistened and set aside.
3. Place chicken in a 2 qt baking dish that has been sprayed.
4. Mix soup and sour cream; pour over chicken and top with stuffing.
5. Bake for 35 minutes or until chicken is cooked through. Makes 4 servings.
Pot Roast
1 roast (take your pick)
2 packet McCormick’s Savory Pot Roast seasoning
1 cup chopped carrots
2 baking potatoes cut up
1 cup diced celery
1. Mix seasoning according to directions and pour into crock-pot.
2. Add roast.
3. Chop all veggies and add to crock-pot.
4. Cook on low 8-10 hours.
Skillet Lasagna
oil
3 garlic cloves, minced (i leave this out)
1 lb ground turkey breast
salt and pepper
8 lasagna noodles, each broken into 4 pieces
1 (26 oz) jar tomato sauce
1 1/2 cups shredded mozzarella
3/4 cup ricotta
1. Warm oil in a 12” skillet over medium high heat. Add garlic and cook until fragrant.
2. Add turkey, salt and pepper and cook until no pink left.3. Scatter lasagna noodles over turkey.
4. Pour tomato sauce and 2 cups water on top of noodles, bring to a simmer.
5. Then reduce heat to low, cover and cook at a low boil until noodles are tender, about 20-22 minutes stirring occasionally.
6. Sprinkle 1 cup mozzarella onto the mixture and stir to combine.
7. Remove pan from heat and spoon heaping tablespoonfuls of ricotta on top of lasagna.
8. Sprinkle remaining mozzarella, cover and let stand for 4 to 5 minutes.
Head over to Org Junkie to see what everyone else is having!
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Calming the storm
The point is not that we have nothing to fear but that His presence is the basis for our courage. Christ does not always immediately calm the storm, but He is always willing to calm His child on the basis of His presence. "Don't worry! I know the winds are raging and the waves are high, but I am God over both. If I let them continue to swell, it's because I want you to see Me walk on water." We'll probably never learn to enjoy our storms, but we can learn to enjoy God's presence in the storm!
Beth Moore, Living Free p 90-91
Friday, September 18, 2009
Show us your life- Dinner Recipes!
MY AWESOME AUTUMN GOAL LIST
- lay in my hammock at least once a week
- have a leaf fight
- eat a carmel apple with nuts
- make s'mores in my backyard (yes i live in the city limits and if anyone of you tells on me i am coming after you!)
- go to a bonfire and hayride (someone is going to need to have one of these so i can do this... please?!)
- dress up for halloween
- carve an amazing pumpkin (Sims family pumpkin carving 09 is just around the corner-oh yea!)
- make something crafty out of some natural fall stuff...
- make pumpkin choc chip cookies
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Fall into Reading 2009
- Create a list of some books you’d like to read or finish this fall. This is the only real requirement for participating in the challenge.
- Feel free to set some additional reading goals (such as reading to your kids two hours per week, getting through your pile of magazines, etc.). However, this is not required; setting additional goals is completely optional.
- Write a blog post that includes the list of books you want to read (and any additional goals you’ve set), and get ready to post it on your blog on September 22nd.
- Visit Callapidder Days on September 22nd to sign up for the challenge. I’ll have an official launch post up that morning, complete with an area for you to submit a link to your personal Fall Into Reading post, where it will be added to the master list of participants.
- Read! Work on your goals throughout Fall 2009.
- Report your results. Write another blog post in December to let everyone know how you did. (I’ll post an official wrap-up to the challenge on December 21st, where you’ll be able to share your results.)
- Have fun! Visit other participants to see what they’re reading. Write reviews if you’re so inclined. But most of all, enjoy your fall reading!
a thought from julia...
"i was thirty seven and still discovering who i was."
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Crock Pot Wednesdays- Asian Tomato Beef
Asian Tomato Beef
2 cans (10 3/4 oz each) Campbell's Condensed Tomato Soup
1/3 cup soy sauce
1/3 cup vinegar
1 1/2 teaspoons garlic powder
1/4 teaspoon pepper
1 (3 or 3 1/2 lb) boneless beef round steak, 3/4 inch thick, cut into strips
6 cups broccoli flowerets
8 cups hot cooked rice
1. In slow cooker mix soup, soy sauce, vinegar, garlic powder, pepper and beef. Cover and cook on low 7 to 8 hours or until beef is done.
2. Stir. Arrange broccoli over beef. Cover and cook on high 15 minutes more, or until tender-crisp. Serve over rice.
Serves 8.
Head over to Dining w/Debbie to see what others are cooking in their crock pots. I love me a crock pot!